Skip to main content

PAIN CAN RELEASE TALENTS


                      PAIN CAN CHANGE THE PERSON

PAIN CAN CHANGE PEOPLE, WHETHER IT'S IN A GOOD OR BAD WAY....

sometime pain teaches people the ugly truth, some turn a blind eye and focus on smiling again. some realise the bitterness and MOVE ON.

There are two types of pain in this world:

pain that hurts you, & pain that changes you

pain can unconsciously make a person create boundaries, because when you get hurt and it's a deep level of hurt, you will automatically build a wall of protection around your heart..because you don't want the pain to break you anymore..

we don't give life a change to surprise us because we don't want to be disappointed again...we don't want to fail again..we don't want to feel like we're worthless.

pain change person mostly for the better, but when people suffer, they try to do everything they can to avoid it, not as trusting, not as innocent, not as pure and now we're more careful, we're afraid, we don't want to be bitter and we don't want to repeat the same mistakes again... we don't want our hearts to sink into the ground again, we don't want to cry uncontrollably again and we don't want to fell weak again.

But sometime pain can be the best protection because you are now more aware..more strong...now you now the capacity of your abilities, sometimes you have to be broken, in being broken, there will be a mixture of pain levels, but "being BROKEN" is a PRIVILIEGE" being broken gifs you the opportunity to build yourself even stronger then you were before the break!! its a privilege to be able to start over and have another chance

sometimes I wish pain didn't change us, I wish pain didn't get so deeply to us, so we can love live, hope and dream like we used to. so we can believe in happiness and miracles the way we used to.












APPS

BLOG:14

Comments

  1. Chinmay ShindeSeptember 18, 2020 at 1:52 PM

    Pain can change anyones life but thinking positively is the secret key for it 🙃 Nice Article 👍🏻

    ReplyDelete
  2. UnknownSeptember 18, 2020 at 11:55 PM

    Nice

    ReplyDelete
  3. @bh!jeetSeptember 19, 2020 at 10:50 AM

    Beautifully described...

    ReplyDelete
  4. UnknownSeptember 19, 2020 at 11:51 PM

    Hey there... Is really nice... Very practical reality... ��

    ReplyDelete
  5. UnknownSeptember 20, 2020 at 9:09 PM

    Very deep thoughts fantastic keep it up apti

    ReplyDelete
  6. UnknownSeptember 21, 2020 at 3:07 AM

    You write very good and pictures that u post along are ultimate. ..

    ReplyDelete
  7. manishSeptember 24, 2020 at 4:10 AM

    Good writer... fantastic

    ReplyDelete
  8. UnknownOctober 5, 2020 at 2:13 AM

    V true apti...nice articel dear......in 2 tyeps of pain ...1 from heart and mentally and 2 from physically ..physically pain se to lad sakte hai firse khade ho sakte hai ...vo tod ke bhi nahi tod dakta but mentaly pain se nahi lad sakt ...vo pain tod ke rakh deta hai....

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. APPSOctober 5, 2020 at 12:18 PM

      Everyone may experience these feelings from time to time, but when such feelings are intense and persistent, they can interfere with a person's ability to function and perform normal daily activities.

      Delete
  9. UnknownOctober 28, 2020 at 9:29 AM

    Awosam
    Those who felt this, can understand the pain

    ReplyDelete

Post a Comment

Popular posts from this blog

MARRIAGE @@ COCKTAIL

                                                                  PROMULGATE @@ EXPERIENCES                                                        Heyy!! Today morning me and my hubby were discussing about relationship & this thought popped into my head... hmmm...my marrige experience is... I think marriage is the start with an empty box..!! You must put something in before you can take anything out...we must Learn the Art and from the habit of giving, loving, caring...& keep the box full...If you take out more than you put in more..😉😉😉 marriage is about becoming a team work, Its not only paper work.. Its Grows m...
15 comments
Read more

BE YOUR CHILDREN SAFE HAVEN

WHAT CHILDREN WANT FROM PARENTS As a parents, we often think about what we want for our children, but we rarely worry about what kids want, mostly we assume we know more then they do and our decision are always better ..But if we listen closely to what they want, we will find that some tiny things... children wants your attention. They want their parents to listen to them in a respectful way, without correcting them. They need emotional support.. children will do as you do, not as you say... If you do not respect your children, they will in turn learn not to respect you.  show your child respect through your tone of voice and acts of listening... spend alone time with your kids and build respect and closeness. kids are like sponges who absorb everything they see and hear... mostly kids say the words they pick up from adults or peers even if they have heard it only once. I always try to putting so much energy into preparing good food, planning holidays and going overboard ...
9 comments
Read more

Am I adding value or just reacting?

  First Read the Room, Then Make Your Point In today’s fast-paced world, everyone has something to say. Social media, meetings, family discussions—opinions are everywhere. But not everyone is heard, and not every opinion lands well. Why? Because many people forget one simple rule: first read the room, then make your point. Reading the room is the ability to understand the environment you’re in—people’s emotions, the context of the conversation, and the unspoken dynamics. It’s about awareness. Before speaking, you observe: Are people relaxed or tense? Is this a serious discussion or a casual one? Are others open to new ideas or already defensive? When you understand these signals, you can adjust your words, tone, and timing. Imagine sharing a strong opinion in a moment when someone is already upset. Even if your point is valid, it may come across as insensitive or poorly timed. On the other hand, if you wait, listen, and understand, your words will carry more weight. Reading the roo...
6 comments
Read more