BE YOUR CHILDREN SAFE HAVEN

WHAT CHILDREN WANT FROM PARENTS

As a parents, we often think about what we want for our children, but we rarely worry about what kids want, mostly we assume we know more then they do and our decision are always better ..But if we listen closely to what they want, we will find that some tiny things...

children wants your attention. They want their parents to listen to them in a respectful way, without correcting them. They need emotional support.. children will do as you do, not as you say... If you do not respect your children, they will in turn learn not to respect you. 
show your child respect through your tone of voice and acts of listening... spend alone time with your kids and build respect and closeness. kids are like sponges who absorb everything they see and hear... mostly kids say the words they pick up from adults or peers even if they have heard it only once.

I always try to putting so much energy into preparing good food, planning holidays and going overboard on parties. These things matter...But what I have learned in my almost -17 years of parenting, thought is that the big things don't matter half as much as the tiny moments
I ask my daughter: what's your forvourit memory? she said...whenwere made the cake toghter 🎂...or walk together👭 or shopping together...sometimes to make little moments special and creating memories 💕with your children makes you a great momma...🙎
Tell your children how special they are, how much you love them. Don't constantly compare your chid to other kids. accepect what they are..
 sometime heard your child without judgement or lecture...Let them make own decisions on non safety or health related things. they couldn't learn to walk without falling..they can't learn to make good decisions without making bad ones.. 
Teach them it doesn't matter how big or small the mistakes are... we all are with you always..
when your children are having a conversation with you, it is important to let them speck letting them finish their thought before chiming in with your thoughts... children of all ages need to be encouraged. They need to discover their own solution to problems so they can find their path through life on their own.

It is important to create a home environment that promotes positive conversation which in turn creates good communication.

If your children feel safe and loved in their home,you're ROCKING motherhood.......👪

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